I had no idea what a challenge this surgery would be. Not only did it HURT, but I was frustrated with the things I could not do on my own.
I was grateful for the things I could do. I managed to master driving one handed, the hardest parts were turning the key to start the van and removing the key after turning it off. That freedom was HUGE and kept me sane.
But my splint was still my constant companion. . .
I could not straighten my arm much less scratch my nose.
It was hard to hold my arm up or let it hang down so I had to prop it up constantly.
I went to my first doctor’s appointment (after surgery) and he took the bandages off. . . what relief! But then he put it right back on after admiring the stitches and removing a few pounds of cotton.
I was blessed by a wonderful friend (and visiting teacher) who came over and cleaned my kitchen (I was living with nothing but males who don’t *see* dirt and messes the same way I do. . .)
A clean kitchen can really lift your spirits!
(Note I still could not take a shower because the stitches were still in. Why did no one tell me about this horror?)
A several weeks after surgery, I was instructed to remove my splint a few times a day and *try* to straighten my arm.
What do you mean that’s not straight?
And then my friend came back and cleaned my bathroom!!!!! (tears of JOY!)
I was going a bit stir crazy and just wanted to go somewhere. . .anywhere. How lucky are we to live so close to Tahoe? So off we went. . .
That was the end of that hike. . . but I could totally see a tennis court in the distance. *sigh*
Another friend. . .another blessing! Everyone deserves some sunshine a box ![]()
So many little things helped me endure this tough time. I felt so guilty that so many people were doing nice things for me. I didn’t HAVE to have the surgery (but I really wanted to be able to use my arm pain-free . . though at this time, I doubted it would ever be that way.)
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